This story in our Women Who Inspire Oranje series is especially close to my heart. I want to honour the most influential woman in my life: my grandmother, Gwen Ekins, or Gwenny as everyone called her. She was more than just my gran; she was my mentor, soulmate, inspiration, and best friend.

I lived with Gwenny from the time I left school until nearly finished with uni, and much of my early childhood was spent with her. She was my rock, supporter, and confidante. We shared deep conversations, big laughs, and midnight snacks. She supported me in every way, even taking my modelling bookings - regularly chinwagging with my agent.

Gwenny was unforgettable, touching everyone with her generosity, kindness, and cheerfulness. People were drawn to her because she made you feel valued and heard. Her legendary garden was a place people visited—passersby would come off the street just to admire it, and she’d welcome and chat with anyone who stopped by.

Born in Rainbow, in the Victorian Mallee, she never forgot the lessons of kindness and humility. Before marrying, Gwenny worked in the Church of England office, where her exquisite handwriting still graces the ledgers. Later, during WWII, she contributed to the war effort by making gun cartridges at my grandfather’s fourth-generation business, WE Ekins & Co. Gunsmiths.

Gwenny’s life was full of love and devotion, especially to her husband, Denis. Their bond was unbreakable—Denis would go AWOL during the war just to be with her. Though he returned as a hero, he never fully recovered from the war. Gwenny cared for him with quiet strength that few knew about.

She was deeply involved in her community, collecting for the Crippled Children’s Association and delivering Meals on Wheels. At 67, she became a nurse’s aide, showing her endless commitment to helping others. Her generosity and compassion inspired my passion for philanthropy and dedication to giving back.

Gwenny was always trying new things—from yoga and wood carving to cooking classes and rowing every day. She made our clothes from the latest patterns, knitted fabulous jumpers, and was the best baker!

Her door was always open. My friends and I fondly remember her open house; she was the life of everything—her lively humour and sense of fun were infectious.
She beamed with pride over her family’s successes, supporting our education, careers - offering unwavering love. Her spirit of generosity and ability to see the good in everyone continue to inspire me. She taught me to value education, cherish books, and appreciate the stories of every person we meet.

People often remarked on how much we looked alike, something that always made me feel bonded to her. It was as if I could see her reflection not just in the mirror, but in the way I carry her with me in my life.

Gwenny, you’re with me always. I owe my humble success, my outlook on life, and my strength to you.

I miss you every day.